5 Best Airbnb Wedding Venues In Long Island, New York - Updated 2024

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Located in the southeasternmost part of New York state, Long Island offers a dramatic destination for weddings. With its diverse options, couples can choose from resorts, vineyards, estates, country clubs, barns, museums, and waterfront beaches to realize their wedding fantasies. North Fork is famous for its wineries and breweries, while the Hamptons exude luxury and opulence. Your wedding venue options are endless on this island.

Couples and guests can visit attractions such as Montauk Point Lighthouse, Long Island Aquarium, and Oheka Castle for entertainment and exploration. Additionally, to legally marry in the state, couples must apply in person for a marriage license at a town or city clerk’s office within the state.

If you’re planning a wedding on this stunning island, read on to find the best Airbnb wedding venues in Long Island, New York.

We handpicked these listings carefully, considering (wherever possible) host status, recent reviews, location, venue options, costs and packages, amenities, guest accommodation, and event restrictions and regulations. The image galleries get refreshed with the latest updates regularly. They were last updated on November 29, 2023.

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1. The J, Southampton (from USD 1947)

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The J, an exquisite luxury estate in an exclusive neighborhood, offers an unrivaled setting for your unforgettable event. This remarkable property boasts impeccably landscaped grounds that exude timeless beauty and sophistication.

Guests can indulge in the luxurious amenities, including a heated gunite pool, a 90-jet hot tub, and an outdoor shower. You can even prepare your celebration meals in the fully equipped outdoor kitchen and indoor kitchen with the finest appliances. Guests will even enjoy the multiple smart LED TVs, two captivating home theaters, and a cutting-edge Sono music system for entertainment.

The J offers ample space to accommodate an intimate wedding with up to 100 guests. The host has reputable event planners, offering a range of concierge and customized private event services, including exquisite wedding packages. Contact the host to secure this extraordinary property for your event. Please also note that quiet time is from 10pm to 8am.

Guest capacity: Up to 100
Standout features: Indoor and outdoor event packages, private event services
Testimonial: “We rented Joseph’s place for our small and intimate wedding in the Hamptons and Joseph was so accommodating and understanding - went above and beyond to make our big day even more special.” - Karen

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With six private bedrooms, including a stunning bridal suite of 850 sq ft and a maximum capacity of 14 overnight guests, The J provides a special experience unrivaled in the area. All events are held outdoors and require backyard fireproof tents, tables, chairs, linens, wait staff, caterers, bartenders, etc. Event fees are separate and above the accommodation pricing.

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Southampton, New York, United States
31.16 km (19.4 mi) from Orient Beach State Park
86 reviews   Superhost Wifi Available
ENTIRE HOME 9 Beds 14 Guests 6 Bedrooms 4 Bathrooms

Accommodates: 14

Top guest reviews
Amenities & Room:
the space is very clean and modern and pool deck is very enjoyable and relaxing
the pool the hot tub and the surroundings were outstanding
the remodeled master bedroom and bathroom was amazing as well
clean and comfortable house
property is clean and communication was clear and prompt
we had a wonderful stay the house is super clean and comfortable
it was very clean and had every thing we needed to have a lovely week
handled a crowd very well extremely clean and well stocked
joseph was an amazing host
joseph is a wonderful host
the house and host were outstanding
joseph is simply awesome host
joe was very responsive and a great host
the location was also perfect
solid location close to southampton town as well
it was an easy 15 minute drive to the beach and close by many other activities
i would reccommend this house to anyone great location very close to town and the beach
great location wonderful backyard space and hot tub
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2. Charming property, Manorville (from USD 999)

Nestled at the end of a serene street, this sprawling Manorville home offers a picturesque retreat bordered by lush greenery and a sod farm. With its expansive 1-acre (0.40-hectare) property and thoughtfully designed floor plan, this enchanting venue is perfect for hosting your dream wedding.

This place accommodates up to eight guests and boasts an array of amenities. Guests can enjoy the bi-level Trex deck with charming built-in lighting and a relaxing hot tub. There is even a driveway and outdoor spaces at guests’ disposal. Inside, the fully equipped kitchen ensures seamless meal preparation.

Situated minutes from the Hamptons and the North Fork, you’ll have easy access to idyllic beaches, charming farms, and vineyards. The host also has a curated list of vendors for event booking and party planning. Additionally, interested parties may contact the host to book the property for the event.

Standout features: Lush backyard, wide deck, on-site parking
Testimonial: “We had our wedding there and Rich was absolutely wonderful! We had the best experience and can’t thank him enough. He is the nicest and most accommodating host. The house is beautiful and spotless.” - Frances

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Manorville, New York, United States
52.1 km (32.4 mi) from Orient Beach State Park
28 reviews   Wifi Available
ENTIRE HOME 3 Beds 8 Guests 4 Bedrooms 2 Bathrooms

Accommodates: 8

Top guest reviews
Amenities & Room:
there was also a huge screen tv with netflix/youtube/prime and some complimentary drinks
the house is beautiful and spotless
the house was very spacious super clean and comfortable
rich's house was also absolutely beautiful and spotlessly clean
best airbnb experience i have ever had the property is incredibly clean and well maintained
his home was very modern and clean and easily fit our group of 6
great stay and great host
he is the best host i have ever seen
he was kind enough to let us use whatever we could to make out stay better
rich was a fantastic host was always available to answer questions
rich is an amazing host very communicative and helpful
super close to beautiful cupsogue beach
rich’s place was really amazing and location was super convenient with fun activities nearby
there's also a great beach on dune rd close by with picturesque sunsets
our stay was amazing and hope to stay at rich's place again soon
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3. Elegant rental with a pool, East Hampton (from USD 584)

This charming property, nestled amidst a lush 1-acre (0.40-hectare) oak tree woodland, presents an enchanting venue for your special wedding celebration. Bathed in abundant sunlight, the picturesque surroundings create a magical ambiance that sets the perfect stage for your memorable day.

This property accommodates up to 12 guests. The front porch beckons guests with its welcoming allure, and the serene backyard deck and pool offer a peaceful retreat for relaxation and unforgettable festivities. With the bonus of being pet friendly, your beloved companions can joyfully witness the exchange of vows. While here, guests can walk to the bay beach or drive to the ocean. Additionally, the host requests that noise levels be kept to a minimum after 10pm.

Standout features: Large backyard with green views
Testimonial: “A group of friends and I recently rented Marie’s house for a nearby wedding. As advertised, the house is perfect for big groups and has lots of space.” - Katie

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East Hampton, New York, United States
14.02 km (8.8 mi) from Orient Beach State Park
159 reviews   Wifi Available
ENTIRE HOME 7 Beds 12 Guests 5 Bedrooms 3 Bathrooms

Accommodates: 12

Top guest reviews
Amenities & Room:
cell service at the home itself is non-existent but the wifi is strong and easy to hook into
we appreciated the little things like extra soaps toilet paper and water cooler in the kitchen
it is beautiful with a large open living room/kitchen area perfect for family trips or group trips
the outdoor space and the pool felt resort like and the living was just very easy
we loved the open floor plan and the giant dining room table
the house is clean and comfortable and well stocked in all aspects
the house was very nice and clean and everything we needed was available
very very clean the beds were comfortable and there were plenty of extra linens if needed
perfect for our bachelorette needs very comfortable and clean
the host is so friendly helpful & responsive
she herself was wonderful and responsive to any questions we had
marie was a great host and was constantly communicating with me
marie was an attentive and considerate host
great stay marie is a great host
the location is great - easy drive to major attractions but in a very private neighborhood
great house great location great time
beautiful home a great location
i’m so glad i chose to stay at marie’s place
great location lots of privacy beautiful setting and pool
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4. Beachside property, Montauk

Situated in the breathtaking Culloden Shores, this remarkable property sets the stage for an idyllic beachside wedding. Imagine exchanging your vows against the backdrop of the shimmering ocean surrounded by soft sands and gentle sea breezes. The beach is a two-minute walk away, offering the most awe-inspiring sunrise and sunset vistas, creating unforgettable moments for your special day.

With a capacity to accommodate up to eight guests, this charming house provides a cozy and intimate setting for your wedding celebration. As a courtesy to the tranquil surroundings, noise is requested to subside by 10pm. For any inquiries or assistance, the host is readily available to help, ensuring your wedding experience exceeds your expectations.

Standout features: Nearby beach, lush surroundings

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Montauk, New York, United States
27.62 km (17.2 mi) from Orient Beach State Park
4 reviews   Wifi Available
ENTIRE HOME 4 Beds 6 Guests 4 Bedrooms 2 Bathrooms

Accommodates: 6

Top guest reviews
the location was excellent
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5. Stunning home with a lake view, Montauk

This beautiful home offers stunning views of Montauk Lake, making it the perfect location for an extended wedding weekend. With the capacity to accommodate up to 16 guests, this charming retreat sets the stage for an intimate and unforgettable celebration.

Inside, the property boasts a large chef’s kitchen, ideal for hosting and preparing delicious meals for your guests. The top floor showcases an open-concept design, creating a bright, spacious atmosphere for events and gatherings. Guests can indulge in the serene ambiance as they relax by the seasonal pool and soak in the inviting hot tub. For those seeking adventure, a two-man kayak and a stand-up paddleboard are available for thrilling lake explorations.

Wedding guests can visit nearby attractions, including Star Island and Montauk Harbor. Furthermore, fur babies are more than welcome to join in the wedding festivities, ensuring that every member of your family can be part of this special occasion.

Standout features: Gorgeous lake views, wide deck, stylish interiors

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Montauk, New York, United States
29.43 km (18.3 mi) from Orient Beach State Park
3 reviews   Superhost Wifi Available
ENTIRE HOME 8 Beds 16 Guests 5 Bedrooms 4 Bathrooms

Accommodates: 16

Top guest reviews
kevin was also a great host
kevin was a great host - responsive and helpful
kevin was a great host very responsive and really cared about us making the best of our stay
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Make your wedding wish in Long Island

Whether you envision a romantic vineyard, a charming estate, a scenic country club, a rustic barn, or a stunning waterfront location, Long Island has it all. To make your wedding planning process easier, choose any of these stunning Airbnb wedding venues and make your wedding dreams come true.

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